Signs Someone is Attracted to You

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Have you been catching feelings for someone and are wondering how they feel about you? Have you ever wondered if you have some secret admirers out there who have been hiding really well? It could be hard to tell at first if someone is interested in you, but if you pay close attention, there are certain behaviors someone can’t hide when he or she is attracted to you. As long as you are patient and willing to play the detective to decipher someone’s true feelings on a microscopic level, the answer will soon be unveiled to you. Without further ado, here are some telltale signs that someone is attracted to you.

Eye Expression:

Though eye expressions are fleeting behaviors that are rather hard to catch, they are one of the most reliable forms of interest someone could show. Eye movements are hard to control by an individual because it is the direct representation of how someone feels even when their actions and words say otherwise. For example, a quick eyebrow raise by someone when you enter the room most likely means that they are delighted to see you. Dilated pupils from someone can also signify romantic attraction because it symbolizes a rise in oxytocin and dopamine.

Physical Contact:

One of the most obvious ways someone can present their interest to you is by showing their want to be close to you. No matter if it’s a pat on your back, a light touch on your hand, or a long-lasting hug, they can all be signs that someone is trying to get your attention. Though there are people who like to use physical contact as a social bonding technique with everyone around them, there are also people who use it sparingly to only people they trust and feel safe around. If you notice that someone only becomes a little more touchy-feely with you, it is safe to say that they are attracted to you.

Mirroring Behavior:

If you ever acknowledge someone copying your tone of voice, the way you laugh, or the way you present yourself, it is very likely that they are interested in you. The individual is attempting to bond with you subconsciously. Most of the time, they do not even realize it themselves because it is their body’s natural response to someone they like and would like to know more about. For people who are shy to tell you how they truly feel, this can be their sign to affirm their feelings for you without making a verbal confession.

Open Body Presentation:

People who are interested in you most likely want to look good around you so that they can impress you. One way for someone to appear more attractive and confident is when they face directly toward you with an open stance and un-crossed arms. This position shows that someone trusts you and is at ease with you. Another signal that someone is attracted to you can also be if their feet are pointed towards you in a group gathering. This gesture shows that the person is interested in you and what you are talking about.

Change in Voice:

Have you ever noticed that some people’s voice changes when they talk to someone they are attracted to instead of their friends or parents? In fact, you probably also subconsciously speak differently when you are next to someone you are interested in; so does someone who is attracted to you. When someone is attracted to you, the tone, strength, and pitch of their voice may fluctuate from their normal self depending on the most appealing version of themselves they want to present to you. If they want to be perceived as more masculine, their voice might be deeper and heavier. If they want to be perceived as more feminine, their voice might be softer and sweeter.

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