Why Date Nights Matter
- Jentry White
- Mar 18, 2022
- 2 min read
Updated: Mar 30, 2022

Whether you're looking for a storybook romance with your spouse, or a fresh endeavor with that new crush, date nights are the bread-and-butter to any successful long lasting connection; because they lay the foundation for your bond. It’s easy for couples to get caught up in the busyness of their lives (especially, with kids), and forget to schedule a proper date night. While singles, on the other hand, are busy with their next Tinder, Bumble, or Hinge dates – which aren’t date nights at all, but rather quick, meet-and-greets or one-time hook-ups. Very seldom do these apps lead to the perfect date-night experience; and this can be frustrating when trying to kindle genuine interest with a potential lover. P.h.D Therapist, Diane Grande, explains: “The best relationships require effort from both individuals. If you don’t have your next date night planned, go ahead and do it. It is not really a luxury after all. Consider it a necessity for a happy and life-affirming relationship.” A true date night is more than just a coffee and a chat, or your typical wine-and-dine. Instead, it’s a time to live effortlessly in the moment, in an almost cinematic, love story. And yes, this experience can be your love story, too!
Don't skip Date Nights
We shine the spotlight on two reasons why date nights matter, and how they may affect your relationship. Enjoy!
Increase Intimacy
There's no doubt that more romantic, one-on-one time with your partner or crush will fan the flames of any relationship. Intimacy is a delicate seed that needs to be nourshished through shared and meaningful moments. One gorgeously planned date night every week can make all the difference in your relationship and enhance your attraction. So, mark your calendar for date nights, and let the intimacy flow. You both deserve the shared time and boost of love.
Connect And Deepen Your Friendship
Most healthy, loving relationships are rooted in an unbreakable friendship. You become friends first, lovers second, while simultaneously progressing through the different stages of your relationship over time. Both singles and couples can benefit from date nights by building on their friendship through shared experiences. Date nights expose our inner-flirt by allowing us the space to be playful with that special someone. Use this time to let-loose, connect and joke out-loud!
Having Some Trouble Planning Your Date Nights?
It can be challenging to schedule and plan a perfect date on a regular basis. Don’t worry, we take care of all of the date logistics for you – from planning, to booking!
At Ourdate, we help create memorable experiences for you and your date to enjoy. So, if you are unsure how to make your date night special, contact us today. We are here to help! We’ll make sure that your date nights are the right combination of fun and excitement for you both, with each date carefully tailored to your interests. If you liked what you read so far, stay up-to-date and check out our latest blogs here.
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